When Your Pet Dies

As a nation of animal lovers, pet bereavement will probably affect most of us at some point in our lifetime. Losing a pet should never be underestimated - after all, a pet is a member of the family so when it dies, it can leave a real gap in our life. It is only right to mourn the death of your pet and research shows it helps with the healing process.

It is impossible to put a time scale on pet bereavement as there are so many variables, but it is advisable to seek counselling if the bereavement process is not progressing after a few months.

Guilt sometimes plays a part in pet bereavement, as if you are in some way to blame for your pet's suffering.

Thoughts like this need to be rationalised as the chances are you have no reason whatsoever to feel guilty.

It often helps to write down your feelings and talk through them with an understanding friend. Placing a special memorial stone and writing an
epitaph to your faithful companion can help too.

Many people today are opting for a virtual memorial, where they can visit whenever they like, from the comfort of their own home.

Try to remember that grieving is a healthy part of pet bereavement and time is truly a great healer.